More questions than answers (that’s the work)

Your look, full of expectations, seeking help, wanting an answer. Your big upcoming decision, the pressure from a deadline or a contract running out. That pain or discomfort seeking release in a better future. So, you say, what should I do? As a coach, that is not the role. Some of the questions might resonate with … Continue reading More questions than answers (that’s the work)

Play outside the fence

We all have our routines, our events and networks, our ways of making sense of the world. It all kind of makes sense in our little garden, we know where things are, and that is why we like it. I am going to propose something different: Go somewhere else. Have clients in a specific industry … Continue reading Play outside the fence

Book: Values-based

https://read.amazon.co.uk/kp/embed?asin=B07RNGQQNH&preview=newtab&linkCode=kpe&ref_=cm_sw_r_kb_dp_E1h2CbVN2NR4P   "Values-based - Career and Life Changes that make Sense" This short, practical book helps you identify core pain points and then helps you do something about them. We go deep and then make it practical so you can make the kind of change that is going to start moving things in a better … Continue reading Book: Values-based

Stillness and deep listening

What do you really want? Like, deep-down really? If-you-knew-you-couldn't-fail really? If-I-could-start-over-again really? We often don't take the time nor space to listen to what is inside ourselves. This requires some stepping back, removing yourself from your normal routines, from the kind of conversations you are always having. And just sitting with it. As Rilke said, … Continue reading Stillness and deep listening

On speed

Our lives consist of multiple facets that all grow and develop. Just not all at the same speed - remember puberty? (Hormones vs neocortex in the neverending battle of "is that actually a good idea"). Later, as our adult lives are chugging along, unless we get pushed from the outside, we rarely stop and check … Continue reading On speed